Q&A: Become An Interesting Guy,
Be A Leader To Catch Her Eye
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This week's Q&A focuses on attracting women if you have a boring lifestyle, being a leader with women, and how to let her know you're a catch. David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women, has your answers.
How can a guy with a "boring" lifestyle become more attractive to women?
The single most important thing you can do in your life -- both for yourself and when it comes to attracting women -- is to become an interesting guy.
The easiest way to do this is to "err on the side of action." What that means is to take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way.
If you come to a fork in the road, take it. If you are deciding whether or not to take a trip, go! Deciding whether to eat somewhere new or go to your same old favorite spot? Try something new!
The more you do this, the more you will enrich your life with experiences... and gain wisdom and knowledge that will make women want to know more about you.
And the more experiences you have, the more interesting things you will have to talk about with women... and the more likely you will be to relate to something they have done.
For example, when she says, "That reminds me of a place in Europe," you can say, "Oh yeah... I know what you mean."
When she tells you she loves Greek food, you can tell her about that wonderful little place you discovered that day when you decided to drive past your favorite spot and find something new.
Remember; we never regret the things we do -- only the things we haven't done. Start to live this every single day, and you'll be amazed at just how quickly women notice.
You've mentioned in the past that a man needs to be a "leader" when he is with a woman in order to create attraction. How important is this?
Well, think about it this way: Women hate to make decisions.
You know how they say that women constantly change their minds about everything? Well, it's absolutely true.
Women can make decisions, but they don't like to -- which is exactly why women love a man who is decisive.