As use of the internet has grown, online dating has shed its stigma, and truly come of age. Today, millions of people around the world use online personals sites in the hope of finding that special someone. And there are countless success stories of people who have found their soul mates through internet dating. People of all ages and from all walks of life from students to professionals are now using online personals sites.
The use of online personals is growing in popularity for several reasons. Just as using the internet was once seen as a pastime strictly for geeks, so was online dating. But now, as the internet has become an integral part of nearly everyone's daily lives, online dating has become as mainstream as dinner and a movie. Many people have become disenchanted with traditional avenues of meeting singles, such as being set up by family or friends or meeting people in bars or clubs. Bars often have loud music, which makes conversation difficult. This makes it difficult to get to know someone, and one's judgment is often clouded by alcohol. It's little wonder then, that few lasting connections are made in bars. Set-ups are often awkward, and rarely work. And when they don't, it often causes embarrassment. Dating colleagues is often frowned upon, and can create conflicts of interest, or other difficulties in the workplace. Just imagine the awkwardness of seeing the person five days a week if the relationship ends on bad terms!
In contrast to bars, online dating enables people to communicate and get to know somebody before actually meeting them. You can share pictures, exchange messages and email, or talk on the phone before committing to that first date. And you don't have to spend a fortune on drinks, and you don't have to leave home, making it very convenient. Online dating services are priced very affordably. Another advantage is that you can screen your search by age, ethnicity, religion, income, education, etc. Online dating is also very discreet. Online dating attracts people who are interested in long term relationships, as well as people who are interested in casual encounters, so it offers something for everyone. Online dating is also ideally suited for our modern hectic lifestyles, where everyone seems to be short on time.
Just as the internet has revolutionized the way we shop, entertain ourselves, and learn, it has now opened up an exciting new avenue for meeting potential mates. Because of the multitude of advantages that online personals sites have over other ways of dating, they will likely continue to grow in popularity, and will increasingly be seen as one of the best ways to meet new people.